Project: Client Advocate Program
Organization: Cancer Services of Northeast Indiana
Fort Wayne, IN
As published in a May
2006 Sunday newspaper supplement highlighting the
personal stories of Cancer Services' clients.
“It has been a week of doctors, testing, radiation
and of medicine … We are learning to be patient…My
sister Cindy has truly been a blessing having been
here for a second week. Not only has she proven to
be my sister, but my substitute mother, my confidant,
my special friend. Thank you Lord for this new day.”
Maggie Troyer was diagnosed with stage-4 lung cancer
on Good Friday 1999. Earlier that week, she was experiencing
headaches, dizziness and trouble walking. Thinking
she was simply fighting an inner ear infection, she
insisted that they keep their commitments. She and
her husband Rich traveled to Michigan’s Upper
Peninsula and two days later to a worship service
in Ossian.
On the way home, Rich insisted that they stop at
the emergency room at Parkview Hospital to see a
doctor and get some antibiotics. Instead the doctor
ordered an MRI and announced to them a short time
later that she had two tumors in her brain and it
was almost certainly cancer. Not only did she have
lung cancer, but it had metastasized and spread to
her brain.
Given just six months to live, Maggie went home
to make funeral arrangements and “goodbye bags” for
people that were important to her. Maggie soon discovered
that she had an amazing support system and doctors
who pulled out all the stops and tried every treatment
possible. In the midst of treatment, Maggie decided
to keep a “good things journal.” Often
so weak that she had to dictate the entry to Rich,
Maggie focused a great deal of her limited strength
on finding the good things in life that made her
happy.
Seven years later, Maggie still has those “good-bye
bags.” No one thought she would still be here,
but she is. Her cancer and treatments have made it
difficult to remember things and she uses a walker
to get around. She wishes she had more energy for daily
living, but seeing her grandson grow and a new granddaughter
born brought great joy to her life. She never misses
seeing the good things in life today.
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