2006 Graduate Stories - Cincinnati
Respite Center for Homeless Individuals
Project: Cincinnati Respite Center
for Homeless Individuals
Organization: Cincinnati Health Network, Inc.
Cincinnati OH
As told by one of the nurses to Mary Beth Meyer,
Project Director
Kevin's Story
As I passed out
the 10:00 PM medication to Kevin last night, I
marveled at the beauty of his fingers as he placed
them around the Dixie cup. Just a few short months
ago those same hands were raw, bloody, and suffering
from severe frostbite. When Kevin first came to
the Center for Respite Care last March, his right
index finger had been partially amputated and
seven
others were wrapped in white gauze. Standing before
me tonight is a new person -- healed from the inside
out. Gone is the intimidating caustic man whose
first words to me when I tried to change his bandages
were “You’re
not doing that right. You are useless.”
Kevin’s bitterness and rage have been forty-five
years in the making. Homelessness seemed to be
the inevitable outcome. His earliest life lessons
were of abandonment - the deaths of two close relatives,
the divorce of his parents and his father’s
decision to take his older brother and sisters
but leave him behind. Next a trusted mentor and
role model failed to keep his promise of continued
contact. Kevin suffered from complex medical problems,
including diabetes, and the lack of proper medical
care was just a part of his life. The onset of
mental illness late in adolescence all but sealed
his fate. The untreated and ever increasing voices
in his head declared daily that he was hated by
the world. Then came the night when Kevin was abandoned
by a friend on a country road in Kentucky, 50 miles
from the city. Wandering alone in sub-zero temperatures
brought Kevin first to the Emergency Room and eventually
to us.
The Center for Respite Care is a 15-bed 24-hour
facility providing medical and nursing care to
people who are sick and homeless. In the beginning
of his stay, Kevin was reclusive, speaking only
when spoken to and coming out of his room only
for meals and bandage changes. Our trained medical
staff quickly recognized his untreated mental illness
and immediately scheduled an appointment with a
psychiatrist. The team of medical and social
work professionals collaborated in developing his
plan of care, modifying certain routine practices
to allow Kevin daily time out of the facility in
the hopes that he would stay long enough for us
to help him. The caring staff at the Respite
worked to help him adjust to living in close proximity
to other people in spite of the voices in his head.
They also helped him to change his mental health
provider to allow him to receive medical care,
mental health treatment and case management at
the same location.
Gradually as Kevin’s fingers began to heal
so began a healing in his heart. As he experienced
the sincerity and concern of our nurses and physician,
Kevin began to trust the staff to guide him in
other ways as well. New medications were prescribed
to help control the schizophrenia and he stayed
the course while adjusting to them. He met almost
daily with our Client Care Coordinator and learned
to be pro-active in making sure his needs were
met. Kevin learned how to properly care for his
hands and began to participate fully in his medical
and mental health treatment. Painstakingly, he
filled out applications for benefits and even learned
how to do his own finger sticks to keep his diabetes
in check.
Another vital step in his recovery was to reconnect
with his family. Kevin has reestablished a relationship
with his mother and now attends church with her
every Sunday. He’s also reunited with his
grown children and his two-year-old grandson has
become the joy of his life. After several
months Kevin left the Center and moved into his
own apartment.
The road to Kevin’s recuperation was not
without its challenges. But with each accomplishment
you could almost hear the collective hearts of
our staff crying, “way to go, Kevin!” He
spoke of his experiences to a group of 50 Respite
supporters, thanking the staff for helping him
learn how to trust and believe in people again.
He ended his talk by saying, “When the fear
was finally gone, Respite was there to show me
the way home.”
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